• Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Home
  • About/Hire Me
    • About Me
    • Hire Me
    • Contact
    • Family
    • Faith
    • FAQ
    • My Running Story
    • Recipes
  • Disney
  • Fitness
    • runDisney Information Page
    • Fitness
    • Races
  • Parenting
  • Travel

Through Heather's Looking Glass

  • Disney
  • Fitness
  • Travel
  • family
  • About Me

Being Realistic

March 29, 2011 | Uncategorized

 

Another gloomy day here. Boo! where did my beautiful sunshine-y days go? It’s humid again, but at least it’s still warm. I feel bad for all the people still experiencing winter-like weather! I’m sure spring is REALLY coming soon for you guys!

I have a confession: I ALMOST registered for another half marathon last night. It has really been killing me watching all the northerners gearing up for half marathon season and racing and PRing and having fun while I sit here in the southern heat not running another half until October. That’s HALF A YEAR! Boo! we have daily been having temps surpassing 80 degrees, and I do NOT run well in anything over 65. Throw in humidity percentages in the 90’s and you have a recipe for Heather sweating out a gallon and blacking out.

First, I almost signed up for the Pensacola half that is at the beginning of April. Luckily, we are trying not to spend a ton of money on races so having to get a hotel and pay for gas and two race registrations deterred me from signing us up.

Then there is the Renaissance half marathon at the end of April in the town where we just moved from. I wasn’t going to run it because 1.) it’s April 30, and that means quite warm weather and 2.) it costs 75 dollars a person. YIKES! But then last night I found out ADA from the Biggest Loser is going to be AT THE RACE! I will admit, I came THISCLOSE to signing up for  the race. I battled it out in my mind all evening, until we went for a 3 mile run in the dark and it was STILL hot outside. I realized I do NOT want to be doing long runs of 12-14 miles in the dark and still be dying of a heat stroke. Plus our gym won’t be ready until September so I can’t run inside on a treadmill.

As painful as it as for me, I just can’t do it. I have GOT to be realistic. The 2011 half marathon year for me has been less that stellar so far. One half marathon with a terrible IT band pain which caused a terrible hip pain on the opposite leg led me to a lot of disappointment. All I can do now is run short and fast distances through the summer and come back training for halfs with a vengeance in the fall. (and a hopefully fully healed IT band). It seems so far away right now, but this will be a good lesson in patience for me.

So, REALISTICALLY, I may run another 5k this spring, but that’s it. I will work on speed and strength this summer which will hopefully translate into stronger leg muscles to support my IT band and faster race times!

QOTD: Are you realistic with your race goals? Do you know when it’s time to race/not race, and do you listen to yourself and your body?

****FOR SALE!****

I have not one, but TWO runningskirts.com skirts to sell! Both skirts are the same style, print, and size. They are both very gently worn, and show no signs of wear. They are a size 3. BUT, not a true size 3. I normally wear a size 2 in running skirts, but they made the briefs smaller in last year’s spring line so everyone had to upsize to for a more true fit on the rear. Both skirts are for sale for $40 dollars each. They retailed for $58 last spring. 

If you are interested or would like more pictures, etc. please e mail me at runningwithsass AT gmail DOT com. I will sell them to the first two people who e-mail me wanting them, so act fast!

Like this:

Like Loading...

Sign up for my newsletter

Reader Interactions

Comments

  1. Megan says

    March 29, 2011 at 9:23 am

    Sounds like we’re in a similar boat with the patience thing 🙂 Don’t worry – your half-marathon season will reappear, your IT band will be happier, and you will do great!

  2. Jen says

    March 29, 2011 at 9:12 am

    I’m glad you didn’t sign up for the race. I know exactly how you feel though. I am so jealous of everyone who can race and it’s super-tempting to register for something. Hopefully both of our race hiatuses will be over before we know it!

  3. thehealthyapron says

    March 29, 2011 at 9:15 am

    Glad you are doing what is best for you and your body! A 5K is still an accomplishment!

  4. Brian says

    March 29, 2011 at 9:44 am

    Rest is probably just what your IT band needs anyway. Use the summer to focus on strengthening/loosening up your hip girdle and the muscles surrounding your knee. That way, you’ll be able to ramp up some long runs in the fall without IT band problems. Google the “Myrtl Routine”. It’s a great set of exercises that can be done just about anywhere.

    • Heather says

      March 29, 2011 at 9:52 am

      thanks so much! always looking for more/new exercises to stretch and strengthen.

  5. Leah says

    March 29, 2011 at 11:16 am

    I am not so good with patience and listening to my body. I ran my first half in Mobile in January and then got hurt the first week of February. I am stubborn and did not yet have a diagnosis, so I hobbled through the Rock-N-Roll half in February. I now know that I have a stress fracture and severe bruising in the bones that run from my groin to my hip. I have been told to take 6 weeks off from running. Problem is, I a leading a group of women in the Couch to 5K program. I have to run the days we do training runs.
    I am signed up for the Gulf Coast Half. I signed up back in December when it was only $40. I can not make myself not do it, so I think I will be walking it. I’ll still cover the 13.1, just at a slower pace. Injuries just plain stink!

    • Heather says

      March 29, 2011 at 11:35 am

      thats the one I really wanted to do, gulf coast. bah! Where do you live? so sorry about your injury!

  6. Crystal says

    March 29, 2011 at 11:25 am

    It’s so easy to get caught up in race registrations! I hate that they can add up so fast! Luckily, living in so cal there are a lot of good local races that I wouldn’t have to get a hotel for, but still…

    trying to save for the new Disney race! I HOPE it is at disneyland!

    • Heather says

      March 29, 2011 at 11:36 am

      def adds up fast when we both run, so double every registration! you are def lucky lol!

  7. Tara says

    March 29, 2011 at 12:07 pm

    I was NOT realistic when planning out my first half that is in a week and a half. It won’t be as good as I thought I could do because I didn’t give myself enough training time and cush time incase I got hurt (which I did). I am still going to do it but next time I’ll do a MUCH better job of getting myself prepared.

  8. Laura says

    March 29, 2011 at 3:01 pm

    Totally know what you mean!!!!! I think it’ll be good for you to give your knee some time to really heal though! 🙂 I know it sucks though! I’m not planning any races (other than maybe 5K’s) until october (and that one is in DC lol) and November here in orlando!

  9. Claire says

    March 29, 2011 at 3:08 pm

    I feel ya on being realistic about how many races you can do. I love racing, I’ve been waiting for my race this weekend for what feels like eons. Its almost as if our race season starts when yours ends. Maybe you’ll have to start traveling north for races : ).
    You might have to go cheer Ada on for that race, and post pictures of her running. I heart her!

    • Heather says

      March 30, 2011 at 10:46 am

      its not just the races its the training, i can’t train in this heat yuck!

  10. Karen says

    March 29, 2011 at 5:31 pm

    Selling running skirts?! *Gasp!* Which ones? lol
    I know your knee will heal all up and you’ll be rocking the races in the Fall!!!! :0)

    • Heather says

      March 29, 2011 at 10:07 pm

      The flower one in the picture. Selling so I can buy another!

      • Karen says

        March 30, 2011 at 6:06 pm

        Oooh…good idea! hehehe! :0)

        • Heather says

          March 30, 2011 at 6:24 pm

          everyone thinks its a good idea! 🙂

  11. Rachel says

    March 29, 2011 at 7:09 pm

    I know how you feel.. I am from Bama. Not exactly great race weather. It’s getting too dang hot around these parts!

    • Heather says

      March 30, 2011 at 10:46 am

      I know! its not even april!

  12. Coco says

    March 29, 2011 at 7:26 pm

    I can do races in March – June and then maybe September – November. There don’t seem to be any races in December – February. This year I am racing in April and June, and maybe October.

    • Heather says

      March 30, 2011 at 10:45 am

      no way i could race in June around here. So hot! I like october-dec best!

  13. Becky says

    March 29, 2011 at 7:44 pm

    Reading about other people’s race fun definitely increases the temptation to sign up, but it sounds like you are making wise decisions. Your body will be that much stronger in October.

    • Heather says

      March 30, 2011 at 10:45 am

      I hope so! thanks!

Primary Sidebar

I am Heather Montgomery, a 30 something southern girl living in Knoxville, Tennessee with my husband Bobby, 10-year-old daughter Emma Kate, and our goldendoodles Dolly and Luna. I’m just a regular girl who likes to workout, travel, hang with my family, text, and eat chips and queso. Be sure to check out my “about me” page for more info!
Thank you for visiting, and feel free to contact me with questions, (or for PR inquiries or press trip invites) at Support@HeathersLookingGlass.com.

Please, no guest post requests. 🙂

More about me

Privacy Policy

You can also find me here:

  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
  • RSS
  • Twitter
  • YouTube

Recent Posts

  • A Magical Christmas Weekend at Gaylord Opryland: Our Family Favorites
  • Convenient Ways to Increase your Fitness
  • A Quick and Easy Seasonal American Road Trip Guide
  • Why Quick Workouts Deliver Big Results
  • 4 Things That Stop People From Exercising (And What To Do About Them)

 

Search

How to Start a Blog

How to start a blog
We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.
  • Disney
  • Fitness
  • Travel
  • Family
Healthy habits I take on every trip ✨ Travel migh Healthy habits I take on every trip ✨

Travel might change my surroundings, but my wellness routine stays the same — hydration, movement, sleep, skincare… and my @bioma.health probiotic.

Bioma goes so far beyond digestion. Its ingredients have been shown to support mental well-being, improve cognitive function, boost the immune system, reduce inflammation, strengthen the gut barrier, and even support healthy aging. 

It’s all about creating a balanced gut microbiome — which impacts everything from mood to immunity to long-term wellness.

✨ Limited-time offer:

Get 60% off, free shipping, plus an extra 15% off with my code Heather15.

#biomapartner @bioma.health
So many people I know follow and like posts and st So many people I know follow and like posts and stories from content creators, but when it’s people they know in real life….forget about it. All of the sudden, we just don’t need or deserve the support. We just get lurkers. 💔 

Women, I encourage you in 2026 to find a table where women champion other women. And I encourage all the ladies here to be a girl’s girl. There is room for everyone, and we ALL need a little support, even those that look like they have it all together. 

Let’s commit to helping each other on AND offline. A simple smile, an “I love your dress” or “your kid did great in the school play” or “hang in there, you got this!” Goes a long way. 

I will never understand people going out of their way to intentionally bypass a person online or in real life. People matter. It’s a tough time of year for a lot of people, so let’s all act like the friends we claim to be and be there for each other however we can. ❤️

#womensupportingwomen #girlssupportinggirls
Yall know I don’t love complicated things, but I d Yall know I don’t love complicated things, but I do love pretty things! 💁🏻‍♀️

This one is great for busy folks who want to make a “special” drink without too much fuss. 🎄 

It’s literally just water frozen in the bottom of a glass with some rosemary taped in it. I waited a few hours the poured in some Prosecco and added in edible glitter (you can use multiple colors!) pretty and delicious, and keeps your drink cold! Cheers! 🥂 ❄️ 

#holidaydrink #holidaycocktails #christmasdrink #holidayhack
If you’re looking for the BEST place to feel every If you’re looking for the BEST place to feel every ounce of Christmas magic this year… @gaylordoprylandresort is it.✨🎄 

We squeezed in the most festive weekend and here’s everything we loved:

• ICE! featuring A Charlie Brown Christmas – jaw-dropping ice scenes + the coolest slides ❄️

• POMP, SNOW & CIRQUEmstance – the brand-new show that completely blew us away 🤸‍♂️ 

• Ice Skating – classic Christmas vibes skating to the best music ⛸️ 

• Snow Tubing – fast, fun, and totally addictive ❄️ 

• Ice Bumper Cars – nonstop laughter for all ages 🧊 

• Snoopy Scavenger Hunt – the cutest way to explore the resort 🐾 

• Gingerbread Decorating – sweet, cozy, and kid-approved 🍭 

• Delta Riverboat Ride – peaceful and magical with all the holiday lights 🎄 

• SoundWaves – warm water + winter weekend = perfection 🌊 

• Old Hickory Steakhouse – the perfect festive dinner 🥩 

• Staying at the Resort – walk everywhere + stunning atrium views at night ✨ 

👉🏻If Opryland is on your holiday wishlist… move it to the top. 
✨ Comment “ICE” and I’ll send you my link + a discount for ICE! tickets and Pomp, snow, and CIRQUEmstance tickets!✨

#GaylordOpryland #OprylandChristmas #ICEatOpryland #NashvilleHolidays #TravelWithKids #NashvilleChristmas #ChristmasInNashville #HolidayTraditions
The end of the year is always a time that I reflec The end of the year is always a time that I reflect on how things went, what I want to do different or better in the new year, and to be honest…I’m always really hard on myself.😕

I often end up sad or frustrated that things didn’t “turn out as planned.” But planned according to who? Success according to what? 

As we were ice skating last weekend at Gaylord Opryland, laughing and just having so much fun as a family, I was hit with what I can only describe as a warm fuzzy. I wanted to smile and cry all at the same time. I thought to myself….this is it right here. 🥹

If nothing else good happens, I’ve got this and am so rich because of it. These moments. This is what I always prayed for as a girl when imagining my family one day. And it’s here, happening right now. I don’t want to wish it away waiting for the next big thing to happen. 

I just want to ice skate with them in a place that makes us so happy. Wha a year. ⛸️ ❤️

#familymemories #familymoments #christmastradition #goodoledays #blessedbeyondwords
It’s still Thanksgiving weekend so this counts as It’s still Thanksgiving weekend so this counts as a Thanksgiving post, right? 🦃🫶🏻

I took the day off on Thursday and then worked a ton Friday, EK had bball Saturday and then we went out of town. I realized I never posted for turkey day! 😜

I have so much to be thankful for, most days I feel completely undeserving. God has been good to us, even in the days that don’t feel so good. His plans may not make sense at the time, but thankfully He is the one that sees the whole picture, not us! 

We are going into the Christmas season with hearts full of gratitude and love as we celebrate the birth of Jesus. This is the most special and my favorite time of year! Let the celebrating continue! 

Lastly, I am thankful for all of YOU! For liking, commenting on, and watching my content over the years. Without you, my career doesn’t exist and I am beyond thankful for the opportunities this job has given me. So THANK YOU! 🫶🏻

#thanksgiving2025 #sothankful #gratefulforyou #turkeyday2025
#BraunPartner #ad I love anything that makes my ro #BraunPartner #ad I love anything that makes my routine easier, and not having to shave as often is a big win 🙌 

Using the Braun IPL has completely changed my routine, it’s the at-home alternative to salon laser hair removal that gives me long-lasting results without the appointments or pain. I started seeing results after my second use, and now I get to spend that extra time doing things I actually love — like traveling, family time, and coffee runs ☕✨ 

If you’ve been thinking about trying IPL, now’s the time, @BraunBeautyUS Black Friday sale is happening Nov 16 – Dec 1, with $120 off the Braun IPL. Up to 2 years of smooth, salon-like skin, right from home. #BraunIPL

Copyright © 2025 · Through Heather's Looking Glass · Theme by Bella Creative Studio

%d