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Planning a Multigenerational Vacation Without Ruining Relationships

January 7, 2025 | Travel

Planning a multigenerational vacation is a beautiful way to bring the whole family together. Whether it’s grandparents, parents, kids, or even extended relatives, this type of trip offers a unique opportunity to bond. However, organizing a vacation that caters to different ages, interests, and needs can be overwhelming. This guide is here to help you manage the logistics and ensure everyone has a great time and makes lots of amazing memories!

1. Start with Open Communication

  • Create a Shared Vision:
    • Use tools like group chats, email threads, or family Zoom calls to kickstart the planning process. You want to make sure everyone feels included and heard.
    • Use Google Forms or a poll app to gather feedback on preferred dates, destinations, and activities. Give the option to leave an anonymous answer so that people will be truthful!
  • Example Conversation Topics:
    • “What’s the #1 thing you’d like to do on this trip?”
    • “Are there any destinations on your bucket list that we could consider?”
    • “What’s your ideal budget for this trip?”

Tip: Involve kids in the conversation by letting them vote on simple decisions like where to eat or what activity to do on a free day. If they feel invested in the planing, they may be more excited!

2. Choose a Destination That Works for All Ages

  • Research Family-Friendly Locations:
    • Beach Destinations: Alabama Beaches, Destin and 30A, Florida (has kid-friendly resorts with pools and lazy rivers).
    • National Parks: Yellowstone or Acadia, with hiking trails for all skill levels and ranger programs for kids.
    • Urban Getaways: San Diego (zoo, museums, beaches) or Washington, D.C. (educational and walkable).
    • Cruises: Disney, MSC, Princess, and Royal Caribbean offer activities for all ages.
    • Mountains/woods: Pigeon Forge and Gatlinburg have cabin rentals of all sizes and loads of family friendly activities.
  • Accessibility:
    • Confirm hotels or activities are accessible for strollers and wheelchairs.
    • Pick destinations with short travel times if traveling with infants or elderly family members! Or plan routes carefully for stops/stretching/bathroom needs.

3. Decide on Accommodation Wisely

  • Why Vacation Rentals are a great idea:
    • Example: A beach house with 5 bedrooms lets grandparents enjoy sunrise coffee on the deck, while kids have space to play games.
    • Kitchens allow for budget-friendly meals, and shared living spaces make bonding easy but rentals also give everyone their own space to spread out. Tensions tend to rise when everyone is on top of each other in a tiny room!
  • Resorts:
    • Look for ones with family suites, babysitting services, kids clubs, or lots of dining options. For instance, Club Med Punta Cana offers a kid’s club and spa options for adults. The Henderson Beach Resort is a great stateside option with a seasonal kids club and a lazy river, but also has an adults only pool and a beautiful spa.
  • Example Filters for Booking:
    • Search travel booking websites for properties with “kid-friendly” and “accessible” filters.
    • Use “multi generational” as well when searching.

4. Create a Flexible Itinerary

If you are too rigid in your plans, you will most likely end up feeling like a failure because let’s face it, with a large group (or any group!) things happen and don’t go according to plan. The more flexible you can be, the lower your expectation will be and things that go wrong won’t bother you as much!

  • Sample Itinerary:
    • Morning: Family-friendly museum (like a children’s science center).
    • Afternoon: Free time at the pool or beach.
    • Evening: Dinner together, followed by a board game or outdoor movie.
  • Tips for Splitting Up:
    • Grandparents take younger kids to a playground or storytime event, something more low key.
    • Teenagers and adults go on a zip-lining adventure or on some rollercoasters.
  • Pro Tip: Schedule “anchor events” (like a group dinner or family photos) to bring everyone together daily to share about your own adventures!

5. Set a Realistic Budget

Sit down and make a list of every single thing that will cost money after you decide on a destination. I mean evrything from food to gas to snacks to activities and supplies for travel. Try not to have any surprises if possible later on!

  • Budget Breakdown:
    • Transportation: Flights, car rentals, gas.
    • Accommodation: Splitting costs among family members. Who pays for what? Who gets the master bedroom in a big house? Is everyone getting the same room type in a hotel or on a cruise?
    • Activities: Group rates for attractions or free activities (beaches, hiking trails). Or senior discounts.
    • Food: Are you eating out daily or buying/bringing groceries. Is all food in the rental for everyone to eat?
  • How to Discuss Money:
    • Be upfront and considerate—acknowledge everyone’s financial situation. No one wants any awkward surprises at check in or at the end of meals. Deciding everything in advance down to gas and groceries will make things go much smoother.
    • Use apps like Splitwise to track and divide shared expenses during the trip.

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6. Plan Meals to Accommodate Everyone

  • Meal Ideas:
    • Breakfast: Make-your-own oatmeal bar or pancakes for kids.
    • Lunch: Pack sandwiches and snacks for a day out.
    • Dinner: Rotate cooking duties among families or order takeout from local restaurants.
  • Kid-Friendly Restaurants:
    • Research spots with high chairs, kids’ menus, and quick service. Eat early if possible with a large group to avoid long wait times.
  • Pro Tip: Book a dinner reservation for the last night as a “vacation send-off” celebration.

7. Prepare for Group Travel Logistics

  • Transportation:
    • Rent a minivan or two SUVs for road trips.
    • For flights, use group booking options for discounts and better seat arrangements.
  • Packing Hacks:
    • Use color-coded packing cubes for each family member to stay organized.
    • Share bulky items like sunscreen, bug spray, or a shared cooler for snacks so you don’t double and triple up on the same things.

Pro Tip: Assign a designated “family tech bag” with chargers, tablets, and entertainment for the kids.

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8. Create Moments for Bonding

  • Activity Ideas:
    • Plan a “family talent show” one evening.
    • Have a themed night, like a luau or campfire with s’mores.
    • Game nights are always fun! Boys vs. girls or parents vs. kids is always a blast! Bring games all ages can play.
  • Capture the Fun:
    • Bring a tripod and set up a group photo in a scenic spot.
    • If you split up for activities, make sure you designate people in each group to get photos and videos (and that they get into some themselves!)
    • Use apps like Chatbooks or Shutterfly to create a photo album post-trip.

9. Prepare for Challenges

  • What Could Go Wrong:
    • Flights get delayed, kids get cranky, or someone feels left out.
    • Solution: Bring snacks, pack travel games, and plan quiet moments for everyone to recharge. Sometimes you just need some solitude!
  • Pro Tip: Have a “rainy day plan” in case weather disrupts outdoor activities. Examples include visiting an indoor aquarium, crafting, reading, or watching movies and eating popcorn at the rental.

10. Reflect and Celebrate

  • Post-Trip Gathering:
    • Host a dinner where everyone gathers and shares their favorite memory from the trip.
    • Create a slideshow or short video with highlights from the trip.
  • Start Planning the Next Trip:
    • Discuss what everyone enjoyed most to carry over into future trips.

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A multigenerational vacation can be some of the most meaningful vacations you’ll ever take. With thoughtful planning, clear communication, and a little flexibility, you can create a memorable getaway that strengthens family bonds and caters to all generations!

Related: 4 Reasons to Stay at Disney’s Riviera Resort

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