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How to Start Running Even When You Hate It

February 16, 2017 | fitness, health, motivation, running, tips

I have been running for several years now, and have gone through many ebbs and flows with my running love affair. There have honestly been more times when I hated running than times when I liked it. I know that sounds like a horrible thing for a “runner” to say, but for me, it’s the truth and I’m owning it. I would much rather sit on the couch and watch Hulu than go outside and sweat, be uncomfortable, and bored for an hour. However, the things I do love are the benefits of running. For me, running is just the necessary evil to get there.

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I love the post run high, the extra energy it gives me, the calorie burn, and the competition aspect. I love the comradery with other runners, the race expos, and the bling. Some of you may be nodding right along with me, especially the beginners who feel like it will be impossible to ever get up to a “far/long run”, or feel like they love it. Unfortunate reality: you may never actually love it. However, that’s ok! You have two choices: 1.) Find something else to do 2.) Do it anyway because you love what it GIVES you, even if you don’t love the act of actual running.

I’m here to give beginners my best advice if you decide you do want to try out the running thing (even if you are currently hating it).

1.) Make a list: What is it you are hoping to accomplish with running? Why did you or do you want to start? Sometimes having a clear and concise reason can help get you moving when you want to take a nap instead. Maybe you want to lose weight, or maybe you just need some alone time. Some people start running to be social with a running group, and some want killer legs. All are valid reasons. You as an individual need to have a goal or focus on WHY you lace up or it may be stuff to stick with it.

2.) Start Slow: Trying to do too much too soon is not only overwhelming (and dumb! Injuries suck!) But it can cause you to give up before you have even gotten started because it seems too hard. Gradual build ups are best mentally and physically. Start with a walk and throw in a few 20-30 second jogs every now and then. Count mailboxes. Tell yourself you will run for ten mailboxes then walk for 20. Get creative but don’t over do it trying to get results faster.

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3.) Schedule your runs and keep track: I am a numbers nerd, and seeing my progress on a piece of paper (or in a spreadsheet for you non paper people) makes me want to keep going so I don’t “lose” my progress. Keep track of how long you go for, and your time. Also be sure to schedule your runs into your planner (or Google calendar, whatever my tech savvy friends are using these days), so that you will actually do it. Heck this blog started because I used it as an accountability journal. I said I was going to run in a blog post, so then I knew I had to follow through.

I have a set of free printables you can download and print out to help you set goals and keep track of your fitness if you want to check them out.

4.) Talk to a running friend: For some reason, we humans like talking to people who have gone through a hard thing that we may be currently dealing with, and have made it out the other side. It’s comforting to know we aren’t alone, and that success is possible. Find a running friend or online buddy who has accomplished a certain goal you want to reach (a time goal, distance goal, whatever!) and pick their brain. It will give you confidence you keep going!

5.) Picture that end result and just do it: I know this seems pretty basic, but it’s just truthful. Think about why you are doing this, then suck it up buttercup and run. You will feel better when it’s over. I have never regretted a run once I was finished. That’s a true story.

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Note: There are people who just LOVE running, and that’s awesome too! There have been times in my life I was that person, but overall, I have to really psych myself up for the actual run portion. I much prefer the results, the social aspect, the races, and the bling as mentioned before. We are all unique and different and that’s what is awesome! This post is not meant to knock anyone who truly enjoys the act of running, but instead to motivate those who are struggling some (or most) days.

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  1. Holly says

    February 16, 2017 at 1:18 pm

    I agree it’s a love/hate sort of relationship. I do like the calorie burn as well and that it’s a quick workout. I mean I can run three miles and burn a lot more calories than I would doing other activities.

    • Heather says

      February 21, 2017 at 3:40 pm

      Exactly

  2. Karen says

    February 16, 2017 at 3:09 pm

    This is a great post, thank you. I also have a love/hate relationship with running especially on those days I have to do my long runs. It is hard to stay motivated for the hour those take! But, you are right, I always feel so accomplished when I am done. And, it seems like my stress just melts away, a big reason I run in the first place!

    • Heather says

      February 21, 2017 at 3:40 pm

      Yes!

  3. Julie says

    February 16, 2017 at 6:18 pm

    Am I the only person that is having a hard time printing the printable? It keep asking me to subscribe. Is this correct?

    • Heather says

      February 16, 2017 at 6:19 pm

      Yes that is correct. It is how you access the printable.

  4. Monique says

    February 18, 2017 at 2:25 pm

    LOL perfect day for this post as it took me over an hour to get dressed and get out of my house today for a run. I’ve lost 75 lbs running, so there’s NO WAY I’m giving it up. But dear lord there are some days I really REALLY hate it. ?

    • Heather says

      February 21, 2017 at 3:40 pm

      That’s awesome!

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